What is acceptable to do is inside of ourselves

In our society the belief is that when you are doing something that everyone does then it is acceptable 'normal'.

There are times that I will be searching the web to find someone else that has the same desires like mine and then it is acceptable by me, from the time  of  sharing same desires with a stranger or reading a blog of someone having the same experience like mine gives me the conclusions that my mind is desperately searching. This is because humans need to be  socially accepted, it is out need for survival. Human beings are not meant to be alone and since forever we needed others to survive.

Humans are not meant to survive alone and we always have the fear of being different from the others, we always have the need to be accepted. This behaviour used to be for life threatening situations for example to survive an attack from an animal but nowadays the social status and how a person is perceived creates the same needs due to socioeconomic status.

I have the impression the need for humans to be socially acceptable and always to proof themselves in the society brought such a technological advantage. It is not just the seeking of the dopamine hit, it is something more that humans have. It is the need to prove themselves for a longterm, its is the seeking of the unknown. Trying to understand the world around us and create a better world for the next generation.

Society is judgmental and if a person does something that is socially unacceptable then the society excludes this person from the society. 

We follow rules that are working for our society, otherwise you would see murders and rapes around the corner.

I used to think that the society needs to be free from rules to work out but this is from a a teenager naïve mind. Now after having some experiences in life I believe we need those rules and we should follow those rules for our society to develop and not let the human ego overcome the boundaries. Human ego is huge and is responsible for the selfish behaviour we see in some people. They don't see themselves as part of the society but they see themselves as superior to other people.

On the other hand some people have developed boundaries and they have the feeling of what is wrong or not. They respect their freedom as much as they respect the freedom of the other people.

Self awareness is in such a rise because of the rise of Internet in a way. People can connect with other people. 

This connection over the world is beautiful and creates space for a positive change.

I do believe there is nothing in the world that is bad or good. It is your point of view and how you perceive it.

Internet and easy travelling broke cultural believes that once was. It does not mean that something is incorrect if it is culturally unacceptable. 

A lot of people had the feeling of being strangers in their own cultural believes but they discovered different people from different cultures to connect with and share what they have in common.

What once was the reason of feeling disconnected from the world is the reason to feel connected.

Different that culturally accepted sexual orientation is not a taboo anymore in most of the places in the world as once was and people are not being perceived different just because of their sexual orientation.

People that use internet are being more open minded. They think outside of the box. The box was the TV that once was in every living rooms house.

Thinking about it how much trust people put in the internet makes me think if someone would use this trust for their own benefit.

People could believe that the things that they are wanting are their desires and it is something personal.

From the time that I've studied Marketing I know that peoples desires/beliefs and dreams can be changed anytime.

I am wondering if my needs and desires are my own. If my instagram instead of inspiring me gives me depression because creates the need of perfection. Perfection is not reachable, everything has flaws but from a perfect pricture you do not see the flaws.

Human nature is always driven by improvement.

There is no violence on the streets and it is against the law.On the other hand in every search you can find a violent porn video that degrade women. These websites have more traffic than amazon/twitter/Instagram together.

You can not rape a woman but you can freely watch a video of it online...

Violence and degrade of human beings are being all over internet and not only in dark web as a lot of people would think so.

Dark web is starting to be the real anonymous internet without ads following you everywhere, reminding you of something that you wanted to buy a month ago.

I don't believe that life and Internet has went to the wrong direction.

What I believe is that we are missing is the connection with our own selves.

When  being upset we should not look at the Web for answers or an escape but in our heads.