I have been always talking about decisions a lot.. But decisions are always there, in every corner of our life's.. Even to buy a t-shirt you need to make a decision, choose between two or more, or if you could you would take them all. Of course when there is the possibility to take them all but when its not you gotta make a decision.. Even this decision can be hard to take then how about life decisions.? When you have to choose between making someone happy or yourself..
When you have to leave your 'freedom' for someones pleasure.. Maybe pleasure is the wrong word for this but I can't think of another word now...
Will you choose your freedom or the fear of loosing something?
This goes for everything in our life's. Everything that take over us..
Relationships, friendships, job, family, people around us...
During my life I had to take decisions like this. Between my freedom and something, for a reason I have been always choosing my freedom..
Freedom is something unique in this word. Freedom makes you who you are and if people around you cannot accept you the way you are then there is no reason for them to be in your life..
Is it worth to be alone for your freedom? Is it worth to lose people,opportunities and everything else for your freedom?
Yes its worth to...
Why to keep a relationship when you have to be someone else?
Why to keep a job when you feel trapped in it?
Why to keep a friend who judges you and makes you feel bad?
Why to listen to your family when they totally disagree with your wants?
Well its just my opinion and as I always say you are free to make your choice and live according to your wants. Its your choice in the end and none can press you to live your life according to them..
I always say chose freedom, as long as it isn't going to effect someone's life in a detrimental way. If I'd chosen to try and keep every person I'd ever known perfectly happy rather than go and live my own life then I'd be miserable. I definitely agree with you <3
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Your personal freedom ends where another begins and for real you cant keep everyone happy. You have to think about your life because none else will <3 I am happy u agree with me izzy :D
DeleteThere is always a price to pay for freedom.. it depends on what you value more. Some people are willing to trade freedom for security... some, their own freedom for other people's freedom.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you! Some people because of their own security are willing to 'sacrifice' their freedom, but some others are risking it for their freedom. Depends and you are always free to choose.
Deletewe all want it! we have the same life perspective. if a person doesnt want me or like me, thats totally fine.
ReplyDeleteI am happy for it!
DeleteFreedom is a very complicated world. Anything that is too much is not good for us. Freedom must be handled with love and care specially if you are a couple or partnered.
ReplyDeleteExactly you should respect the freedom of the other person :)
DeleteYou voluntarily need to lose your freedom when you get married, have a family and have a job. For most people, these things are needed for life to be complete. No freedom is absolute. We also need to know how to compromise and live with other people.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe that you lose your freedom with getting married or have a job.. Everything depends on you. I am not saying that freedom means absolutely being alone, you might be free with being with someone else. For me freedom has a wider meaning!!
DeleteEveryone wants freedom, I supposed? Thanks for sharing the post and it's very inspiring for me!
ReplyDeleteI am happy that you liked it !
DeleteEveryone fights for freedom in one way or another. Some people even die fighting for freedom. So those who enjoy their freedom must do the best they can to protect and preserve it.
ReplyDeleteExactly the ones that we can have our freedom we should be thankful for it !
DeleteOur Creator gave us freedom to choose about our life and the way we make our own decisions. That's natural for us as human beings.
ReplyDeleteAgree everyone deserves freedom!
Deletefreedom and our personal freedom is an interesting concept. We need to be true and authentic to ourselves but also consider those we love and are close to. We should follow our hearts and dreams and allow others to do likewise. An important discussion and thanks for sharing and contributing your views...
ReplyDeleteI do believe that everyone deserves to be free and we should respect others freedom as well, not only the people that we are close to.. I wouldn't say the world we live today is free.. The developing countries live for working for the developed countries.. Its an interesting concept I do agree and there are many things to talk about.. Thank you for your comment!
DeleteYou are as free as you think you are. Freedom starts from "mindset". Setting your mind free from anything, is the real essence of freedom. A lot of people are not imprisoned physically but are emotionally in a small cell. And they have chosen to stay there for a long time.
ReplyDeleteYeah that's an interesting opinion and its totally right..! Thank you for sharing it ! You can be a prisoner of your own mind but you can set your mind free and you are free even if you are in a 'real' prison.
DeleteIt all depends on what we want in life. Sometimes we also need to sacrifice to not just be happy but to also make the right decisions and besides we all have our own definition of freedom. :D
ReplyDeleteYeah exactly everyone has a different mind for freedom. For someone to make the right decision is freedom. Why not?
DeleteWe'll always have a decision but the more important thing is we make one. The next one is to stand by it and adjust as needed.
ReplyDeleteDecisions are there to be taken ! As long as you leave it the harder it becomes ..
DeleteFreedom means different things to different people. I usually define it is as doing something that makes me happy but it also should not hurt anyone.
ReplyDeleteI agree but sometimes you have to choose, either to hurt someone or stay in a situation that you don't really want.. Sometimes its easy and sometimes its complicated but definitely freedom makes you happy !
DeleteJust like what Superman said... With great power comes great responsibility. And I believe it is very applicable to Freedom. With Freedom comes great responsibility. In this world, we are actually free - to say/do what we want to say/do, on what to believe in, etc - but we have to be responsible for our actions or words.
ReplyDeleteAgree and the more freedom you have or you risk for your freedom the more you have to face the consequences..
DeleteUnfortunately there will always be a price to pay for one's freedom. Just look at the free world today. Everyone has paid the price, and continues to sadly :-(
ReplyDeleteActually i believe that the world today is not free! This is not freedom..
DeleteThe freedom to choose is both a blessing and a gift that some people take for granted. Sadly, we live in a world where some people don't have the freedom to many choices.
ReplyDeleteWe live in a world that some people have no freedom which disappoints me. Everyone should be free and make their choices and actually the ones who have freedom should appreciate it..
DeleteYes, you can choose to be free, but many a times, life is not just about you and you alone. life is about the people around you too. If you have a kid with your spouse, but you are "free" to leave and go find someone else, should you do so and hurt your child in the end?
ReplyDeleteSometimes freedom means lack of responsibility, too. I always wanted to be free of my duties, everyday tasks, family chores and all but I can not feel free as a bird because I have that feeling of responsibility for the world around me.
ReplyDeleteFreedom!! Be yourself..experience more!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you. And the beauty of this is when you finally decide to be yourself people and situations alike will appear and they will be in ccordance with it, so no more struggling in relationships or job. Good words ;)
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